Honesty, the key of a relation
Everytime people begin a relationship, one of the most important things to take in consideration is honesty. The very first mistake the other person commits, according to honesty, such as lying, is the one that will always remain.
Seeing that, isn't honesty the key in a relationship of any kind?
Family and friends are relationships made up by honesty. That's why, whenever someone breaks that “code of honesty”, the relationship is partially broken, and there is nothing anyone can do to fix it. A dishonest person is usually known as a lonely person, since nobody wants someone who may betray them in their lives. Even though, the person you've lied to, forgives you, the relationship will never be the same, because there is nothing worse than knowing that someone you love hurt you.
Many people seem to be full of joy and happiness, however, those are the ones that are more dishonest with themselves. Then, why a person that looks happy is usually known as a dishonest one? The reason is that, many people lie to themselves (unconsciously) so as not to face their own reality and fall into depression, so they live and behave according to their “fantasy world”, in which they hide the real truth inside their minds. However, that's even much worse because once they accept the truth, their world will be completely destroyed, due to the fact that the decisions they have made with that idea on their minds, may be 85% wrong ones.
To conclude, if we are not honest with ourselves and the people we care the most, we will end up lonely. And who will ever believe in us?
Seeing that, isn't honesty the key in a relationship of any kind?
Family and friends are relationships made up by honesty. That's why, whenever someone breaks that “code of honesty”, the relationship is partially broken, and there is nothing anyone can do to fix it. A dishonest person is usually known as a lonely person, since nobody wants someone who may betray them in their lives. Even though, the person you've lied to, forgives you, the relationship will never be the same, because there is nothing worse than knowing that someone you love hurt you.
Many people seem to be full of joy and happiness, however, those are the ones that are more dishonest with themselves. Then, why a person that looks happy is usually known as a dishonest one? The reason is that, many people lie to themselves (unconsciously) so as not to face their own reality and fall into depression, so they live and behave according to their “fantasy world”, in which they hide the real truth inside their minds. However, that's even much worse because once they accept the truth, their world will be completely destroyed, due to the fact that the decisions they have made with that idea on their minds, may be 85% wrong ones.
To conclude, if we are not honest with ourselves and the people we care the most, we will end up lonely. And who will ever believe in us?
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